Are You Afraid of Relationships?

Are You Afraid of Relationships?

I bet you can think of at least one man who has intention to stay single and even shunned what could have been a great relationship with amazing woman just because he didn’t want a “serious relationship.”

But then, just a few weeks or months later, that man met another woman. And within just a few weeks with this new woman he was completely sprung and head over heels for her… and he was begging HER for a committed relationship.

Fascinating…

If you’re like most women, then you’ve seen several men you know do this “instant switch” thing where all of a sudden they want a serious relationship, even though all they could talk about before was being “on their own.”

Here’s the reality: Most men are never “ready” for a relationship… not until they feel the magical feelings and experiences with a woman that tell them “Hey, this is the woman for me.”

“For a man, the connection he feels with a woman early on can have nothing to do with whether or not he wants a relationship with her.”

Are You Afraid of Relationships?

I bet you can think of at least one man who has intention to stay single and even shunned what could have been a great relationship with amazing woman just because he didn’t want a “serious relationship.”

But then, just a few weeks or months later, that man met another woman. And within just a few weeks with this new woman he was completely sprung and head over heels for her… and he was begging HER for a committed relationship.

Fascinating…

If you’re like most women, then you’ve seen several men you know do this “instant switch” thing where all of a sudden they want a serious relationship, even though all they could talk about before was being “on their own.”

Here’s the reality: Most men are never “ready” for a relationship… not until they feel the magical feelings and experiences with a woman that tell them “Hey, this is the woman for me.”

“For a man, the connection he feels with a woman early on can have nothing to do with whether or not he wants a relationship with her.”

Tips for stronger relationship

Tips for stronger relationship

Relationships are important in life. Whether they are with family members or with friends and spouses, relationships need your time, effort, care and energy to go a long way. Some relations, which are made in the teen years, carry on for life, while others made some time later may fade away. Here are some tips, which can make your relationships grow stronger and healthier:

Communication: an important aspect of any healthy relationship is the communication between the two people. You need to talk and listen to each other to know the common interests that you have amongst you.

Sharing: a healthy relationship develops when you share ideas and feelings. The feeling of sharing develops when you communicate. You trust the other person to listen to you and be there for you when you need him/her. A healthy relationship blossoms when you support the other person and share your thoughts and interests.

Respect: respect is another important factor, which helps build a healthy relationship. Whether it is between husband and wife, parents and children or dating partners, mature relations can develop only when you respect the other partner and give him his space. You have to respect the boundaries set for each other and let the relations grow. There may be disagreements but you should make them a reason to make your relations grow stronger.

Trust: probably the most important aspect of any relationship is trust. You need to trust your partner in all circumstances. You have to instill the feeling of trust in your partner and show him/her importance in your life.

Spend time together: life has become so hectic that there is no spare time for your loved ones. You have to squeeze in some time to spend some time together. This makes the bonding stronger and you feel good. If both partners are working, they should meet at weekends to know what the other person is doing. This applies to parents as well, who should, occasionally check with their children and spend time together to let them know that you are there for them.

Laugh together: humor is the best stress buster. Therefore, you should try to spend time and laugh together. Share jokes, messages and secrets to add spice to your relationship. The ultimate thing in a relationship is time spending and communicating.

These tips show how relationships can be made stronger. As mentioned, disagreements are a part of any relationship but handling it maturely and walking out of it without arguing is the best way. In fact, arguments at time make relations stronger as you come to know each other. You need to pay attention to your partner's demands and rejections and this helps in making a relationship grow.

Adeyeye Michael kayode

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UNDERSTANDING THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND INFATUATION

UNDERSTANDING THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND INFATUATION

Love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person. It is a decision, a judgement and a promise while infatuation is wild, foolish, blind love, unreasonable love, erratic, and passion centred or based on only feeling, emotional strong desire for a person.

Infatuation is being mistaken for love most times; therefore i have carefully study the differences between them and these are the differences stated below;-

1.    Love is selfless, infatuation is selfish and greedy

2.    Love controls physical contact, infatuation exploits it

3.    Love develops slowly, infatuation develops rapidly

4.    Love encourages and contributes towards someone’s progress but infatuation  does not due to lies

5.    Love does not keep record of wrongs committed by other party but infatuation capitalizes on wrongs committed by others

6.    Love relies more on compatibility, infatuation relies more on chemistry and physical appearance

7.    Love is associated with understanding, attention and commitment, infatuation is associated with sexual attraction and exploitation

8.    Love recognizes realities, infatuation ignores them

9.    Love focuses on one person, infatuation focuses on several persons

10. Love is patient, kind and long suffering infatuation is arrogant, impatient and rude

11. Love survives the test of time, infatuation can’t wait

12. Love seeks the best in others but infatuation seeks the wrong things in others

13. Love is built on commitment but infatuation is build on feeling

14. Love gives room for growth and change, infatuation does not but rather expects perfection

15. Love protects, preserve, increase and multiply people but infatuation exposes you to sin, depression, rejection and destruction

16. True love does not intimidate or manipulate people into doing the wrong things but infatuation does

17. True love celebrates your achievement and rejoices in your success but infatuation gets intimidated and frustrated at your success.1^st Corin13:1-13.

The primary effects of infatuation are sexual abuse, premarital sex, adultery and rape which are sinful before God. Sin is working contrary to your creator – God.

It is outright rebellion against God’s law. Please ZIP UP and keep off infatuation.

For you to have a lovely relationship that can cumulate into marriage, build your relationship on true love.

                                                                                                                                   

The Art of Seduction

The Art of Seduction

The immediate temptation of anyone who hears the word seduction is to quickly associate it with love – making; the art of seduction is by no means the only purpose to which seduction can be put.

Whether we are conscious of it or not, there is something in our nature as human beings that make us, naturally, seducers. Many people will hold the assertion in dispute; but a moment of careful thought is likely to make us see seduction in the right perspective. By my standard, the business person who dons his best attire on the occasion of a business appointment likely to turn his or her fortunes around for good is practicing seduction. The politician who uses banners, posters, audio – visual interviews, and rhythmical campaign slogans; the advertiser who uses hilarious radio jingles to advertise his products; the movie house that whets our appetite with bits and pieces of gripping scenes in its movies; the car manufacturer who designs his car to look sleek, solid and heavenly; the product manufacturer who wraps his products in colourful packages; and many more other people are all busily practicing The Art of Seduction.

By using methods that had been successfully employed by charmers like Don Juan, Giovanni Casanova, Marylyn Monroe, napoleon Bonaparte, Cleopatra, Bathsheba, Bill Clinton, Benjamin Disraeli, Rasputin, Madonna, and our Goodluck Jonathan the author shows us how we can wield influence that continues to keep us in demand for as long as we live.

Our Almighty Father, also use the seduction method through our lord Jesus Christ who bought us from the camp of the evil one by shedding HIS blood on the cross of Calvary. He gave us life in abundance and we now have access to God through our lord Jesus Christ. Through him, man now has access to God.

Should we use this art, this secret, for man or material? This question is best answered by the man or woman who decides to learn and use The Art of Seduction. I will suggest we apply this principle to our everyday life and in whatever capacity we find ourselves to touch a life effectively and positively for God.

As for me, I find this book interesting and a lifetime treasure that must not be out of sight. I have started to apply it to my life. Look for the book, read and start to apply it to your life.

Adeyeye Kayode

Book reviewer

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HOW TO ABSTAIN FROM PRE MARITAL SEX

HOW TO ABSTAIN FROM PRE MARITAL SEX

What is premarital sex?

This can be defined as sex before marriage. It is about a thrill, a momentary pleasure without a loving relationship. It is not a solution to feeling unloved, unwanted, abandoned, rejected, depressed and loneliness. It only complicates issues of life.

Religious view about premarital sex

Marriage is honourable and the bed undefiled for God will judge both whoremongers (fornicator) and adulterer. Hebrew 13:4, 1^st Corinthians 6:18-20.

Effects of premarital sex

1. Death via abortion. When you engage in unwanted sex and it result into pregnancy. The last option to those persons is abortion and it brings about death.
2. Disgrace. Unwanted pregnancy brings disgrace to the girl involved in premarital sex.
3. Sex addict. Once you taste sex it will turns you to a sex holic in the society.
4. Stain and loneliness. Once you get yourself involved in premarital sex, people get to know you and they all will stay away from you. Loneliness will naturally kill you.
5. Rejection. No man will want to marry you because you are sex holic even the society will reject you.
6. God will be angry with you and you will not be his child any more.

How to abstain from premarital sex

1. Experience new birth or salvation in Jesus Christ. When you have an encounter with Christ, he will recreate and transform your life to live above sin.
2. Avoid seducing a man through your dressing therefore always dress modestly and decently.
3. Avoid having an encounter with pornographic films, romantic books or novels and magazine this is because what you see affects how you behave and you behave affects what you become
4. Do not succumb to peer group pressure
5. Avoid body fondling, kissing, pecking and necking when dating
6. Always flee from all appearances of evil
7. Do not engage in dating until you are physically, emotionally, spiritually, socially, mentally matured and ready
8. Always exercise self control over your emotions
9. Avoid wrong association or bad company for “ evil communication corrupts good manner”
10.  Avoid staying alone with your intended spouse late to the night
11.  Avoid sleeping with your intended spouse in the same room before marriage
12.  Always subject your flesh under the spirit of God by dwelling on the word of god everyday
13. Ensure that true love is the foundation for your relationship and love guides, protects, cares and hates sin

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Sex Is Important in Intimate Relationships

Sex Is Important in Intimate Relationships

 

When people write about sexual health issues many are offended, or put it in the same boat like movie porn. I am always surprised by the reactions of some sexual nature, because as I see it, is important in relationships and sex is a big part of life in general. Most of us have sex in our relationship because it is a natural and proper relationship, and if one gender or the sex education debate is offended, so I'm ready to bet that you might have a problem in their sex life.

Why sex is important in relationships? Well, for one, make us a break from everyday life and the stress that comes with it. In the sexual act our thoughts are often focused on enjoyment and intimacy and pulled into a world of naked bodies and pleasures. Obviously this is a big difference in our lives, not sexual, and is good for stress reduction and reminds us that there is more life than the hustle and bustle of our daily tasks.

Sex allows your partner, and feels closer. Let yourself be vulnerable, physically and mentally to someone in a way that with someone else. This can only strengthen the trust between the two, because it requires trust to be vulnerable.

Sex is a special event that only the two share and to create a particular aspect of their relationship is not with someone else. It makes you feel accepted by their partner and participate with your partner.

While sex is not the most important part of the relationship when a healthy sex life is now a large part of the relationship if the sexual aspect of what went wrong.

Have you been suffering a dry spell in your sex life only find on the rest of your relationship, too? You begin to wonder why you do not have sex and what is wrong with you or your partner or your relationship.

If sex is not in a relationship that can lead to a healthy woman feel unattractive and undesirable to your partner. You can leave her feeling that if your partner is connected to him or even think about them and their needs.

A person can feel as if they satisfy your partner and bring her the pleasure she needs sex. It may make you not only insufficient to please them in the bedroom, but outside of the room.

Begin with feelings, as it is natural that, seep into other aspects of their relationship. They can be recovered by your partner and feel than before. You can begin to feel as if they do not meet their partners in other areas of your relationship. Negative emotions have a way to take and keep snowballs into something bigger and more negative.

So if his ears and can wag their fingers about the sexual discussion closes to think about their own sexual lives. Connect like-minded people can be on sex education in the chamber cause a narrowness of mind to sexual pleasure in the room. And as we discussed, which cause other problems in the relationship.

Sex is an important part of all intimate relationships. Do you have sexual problems later; unless they seek help outside the relationship with your sex life will never change. So do not close read your views about sex, because it's something that you can use that night in the room and make you and your partner closer.

3 Things You Should Do to Get Your Man Sexually Addicted to You

3 Things You Should Do to Get Your Man Sexually Addicted to You

 I also like a man; I'm just another "victim" of these councils and ask them to stop listening to beautiful ladies this nonsense. But here is the good sense to me. I do not have 127 "funky" advices; I'll give you three real estate advices that really work. Men are not as complex as you thought magazines. It's actually quite easy for us to know if you require the United States, people who want to fall over backwards for you.

If you are crazy about you and feel like a sex addict when he (or even hear his voice on the phone) in order to do then read on. Here are my top three.

1. Make all your sexual fantasies... Men like you, ladies and fantasies. And many of them can be "sick" and Kinky. A woman who is completely devoted and in love with her husband is ready to do something for him in his bed. And when I say nothing - I mean everything with a capital "A"

If he knows that he is ready for him and 100% to satisfy all your wishes - I appreciate you more than you can imagine. Devotion and total submission, which were of course most men. Sure, you can yell, "We have rights!" and "no" send "anyone", etc., but you have to have concrete results or not? Do you want to do really like him sexually addicted or just "something? I bet this is the first.

I will tell the truth and what works: the sexual submission and devotion is what works. You have fun when your man gets pleasure. If you cannot change your attitude, your desire to be in bed.

It is certain that man has fantasies. Find out what they are and what everything in their power. Dar as care, so the more you give him sex is their most satisfying your satisfaction, you feel more appreciated and of course the best sex.

In this way you will be "unbeatable" in his bed, and every woman who could end up with later not a game for you. If he's with her, he will think of you. In fact, he does not want to leave.

2. Check out each day better and more sexual. Women, do not hide their sexuality are attractive. Really attractive. I'm not saying, you should run naked or flirt with every guy like you - I should say, you let go and be free. Stop worrying about what society thinks. In bed with the guy, let's go and all the crazy things you do not do so that he believes to be wrong that a sly # t.

understood to lick, bite, have sex in the house, out in the car, the elevator when possible. Work to be sexually open to him and spice up your sex life as possible. Take care of yourself and always "tight" physically. It's amazing what difference does it make if a woman exercises regularly and takes care of physically. Always smell good lotion, the body uses to make your body smooth and silky. All this adds to its appeal.

If the guy grabs you and feels soft skin and sexy, silky and incredibly, is in addition to their muscles are tense, you are flexible and easy to learn and take him home and "move" light in the bedroom almost effortlessly, crazy fun that you can give.

They are much more sexually attractive to him in this way. Men do not want the "dirty" and "evil" in his bed, it is a fact. While. You must be a woman on the street and a porn star between the leaves. Make sure that behave only with him and for him as he wakes up from this side of you.

It may seem superficial, but it's the cold hard truth is realidad.Esa. So either we use this fact to your advantage or do you complain that life is not fair. It is your choice.

3. Give the best oral sex of his life. You cannot imagine how many women there have no idea (or no interest); have oral sex when it comes to humans. On the other hand, men who want more than anything else in bed. If you give the best blowjob of your life can you be a rarity in his past sex life and future.

Give great oral can easily get a sexually addicted. Learn the art of oral sex and it is yours. Believe me, madam, it works like a charm. Make your goal is a better oral porn star of his whole life was observed. If your husband so that other women, I never could please give everything to keep him, and give you a lot of fun.

Been saved countless marriages and relationships when women have mastered the art of fellatio.

I'll give you advice if you give your man orally. You have to love his penis and be fascinated by it as if it was the most amazing thing you had ever seen in your life. Look at it as if it is the fountain of youth) should be women, those three things and just go to your husband had sexually addicted and have a rock hard erection every time he thinks of you. Men are not as complicated as it seems.