Relationships are really what makes the world, is not it? I
the offer, good, positive, healthy and meaningful relationships
the richest experiences we have here in this ancient land from us. His love
Spouse who shares everything with you, the best friend who is connected with
that few other people at work to help you love and
the best you can, what brings joy to life!
But ... Relationships can be the bane of our existence! What really brings
more pain in this life is a broken relationship, especially if they do not
break, but frankly ugly!
Therefore, it behoves us to do everything possible to compress to maintain our relationship
right along, right? If we do our best in our relationships
you can almost guarantee to make the most of our relationships!
Over the years I spent hundreds of hours working with people
Relationships: marriages, friendships, relationships and
social relations. The whole time I have seen wonderful things
terrible things. It is really good, the bad and the ugly!
But I could see three basic elements of success to
Relations. These are things that create, if they happen over time begin to
for the types of relationships that I really want. They are types
Relations which have always dreamed of.
The point of these three elements is the acronym ZIP
you can do three things - and start immediately - to improve
and all their relationships. They are:
Put a little encouragement in their relationships.
Cultivate more intimacy in their relationships.
Develop a goal in their relationships.
Look closely at each of these three:
Put a little encouragement in their relationships.
At Zest, which means fun? Relations were making fun! We would not
t have taken the opportunity to have fun when relations were not
, a little spice of their own!
Think about it: Is not it most often begins with healthy relationships
many funny moments. Whether in the restaurant or play ball or
spend much time playing a game or just a chat, have generally
Fun to be an important part of the relationship. Fun is the glue that bonds
Relationship.
But as life goes on, especially in a marriage, but in all relationships
In fact, the fun starts on the road. Increasingly, it is
do the work, which may be the job.
To restore the relationship with a small zipper put on it, we
Reintroduction of the idea of "shell".
And you? Have your enthusiasm? What can you do to relax?
Think is a specific relationship: What are the good things
Beginning of the relationship, which acted as the glue has
together? Now we are obliged to do it again and see if your relationship
begin to rise again! To do if possible, the development of new fun things
together, so that the two begin an adventure of fun together!
Cultivate more intimacy in their relationships.
First a few observations: First, I do not mean just on the privacy
currently, the understanding, namely, sexual intimacy. I mean, for all
Effects, deeper in their relationship on a plane. Second,
does not mean you have to do group hugs begin with colleagues or
Meetings of the disclosure in the fabric flows freely.
What I mean is that every relationship is a mutually satisfactory
Level of depth that makes sense. That's really what the research
is in our relations: the meaning.
Remember when you began your relationship with your spouse or
or friend. The whole time was spent opening that you are, where
may be they were, what they like and not. It was a deep sense of
Relationship satisfaction - that's why we left. I like this
they were and that you like to be known to them.
But then something happens. We have reached a certain level and research
cold water. We stopped to share his feelings, likes and dislikes. We stopped sharing
Joys, dreams and fears. Instead, we decided in a routine. The daily routine
takes over, and we know each other and just to be together. Now
do not get me wrong, if they do not appear to be deep.
Remember, I am defending in the preceding paragraphs have only
old funny sometimes. But there is a need for intimate hours
where we communicate more deeply with others.
This is particularly difficult for many kinds of men like me, but
not only possible but necessary and healthy! If we type
Relationship were to hold, we must open ourselves to have to
others we know and we can get to them.
Significant relationships are fulfilled when we loved and accepted, which
we are in our essence, and act not just in the right direction in our relationship
the other person to keep in it.
Think of the relationship we want to see improvements in
to spend some time in the weeks and month’s time talking and
reach a deeper level in their relationship. More specifically, the other
immersed in their world. You cannot be by force the person more
intimate and can certainly not say: "Let's get together and have an
intimate conversation, "because it would be too artificial. But you can
decide for yourself that leaves others in their world.
Might be the catalyst for them to do the same.
You can help protect privacy, but not much deeper and
You will feel the desire in his heart more, or you can start
Deepening the process of change and see their relationship for the better.
Develop a goal in their relationships.
The most important relationships that we are held together
a common goal and vision of what cannot reach the relationship
only for those involved but also for the good.
Let's face it, if people have a common goal, they feel like they
Part of a team and feel united in this respect. Although
Men can people stand to be disappointed if
have a purpose, such as the education of the children are much more
Excel. Purpose of creating links.
So what happens when we are actively involved in finding a common
Effects that we have a relationship or those that we
already have a relationship with, but we would like to explore?
Well, it's better and stronger.
Think more about your relationship. Are not
at least one end zone or goal?
What is a relationship that has cooled? Think again and see if maybe
I used to have a common goal, but was lost.
What about his desire to develop a relationship? Take the time to start
to cultivate a common purpose. Please contact that person and say
would create common goals, objectives
together. Since the development of this to strengthen you see your relationship
Ways you never imagined!
Let's recap: You want your relationships to a little under "Post?" Then a
little Z.I.P. them:
Put a little encouragement in their relationships.
Cultivate more intimacy in their relationships.
Develop a goal in their relationships.
