What is premarital sex?
This can be defined as sex before marriage. It is about a thrill, a momentary pleasure without a loving relationship. It is not a solution to feeling unloved, unwanted, abandoned, rejected, depressed and loneliness. It only complicates issues of life.
Religious view about premarital sex
Marriage is honourable and the bed undefiled for God will judge both whoremongers (fornicator) and adulterer. Hebrew 13:4, 1st Corinthians 6:18-20.
Effects of premarital sex
- Death via abortion. When you engage in unwanted sex and it result into pregnancy. The last option to those persons is abortion and it brings about death.
- Disgrace. Unwanted pregnancy brings disgrace to the girl involved in premarital sex.
- Sex addict. Once you taste sex it will turns you to a sex holic in the society.
- Stain and loneliness. Once you get yourself involved in premarital sex, people get to know you and they all will stay away from you. Loneliness will naturally kill you.
- Rejection. No man will want to marry you because you are sex holic even the society will reject you.
- God will be angry with you and you will not be his child any more.
How to abstain from premarital sex
- Experience new birth or salvation in Jesus Christ. When you have an encounter with Christ, he will recreate and transform your life to live above sin.
- Avoid seducing a man through your dressing therefore always dress modestly and decently.
- Avoid having an encounter with pornographic films, romantic books or novels and magazine this is because what you see affects how you behave and you behave affects what you become
- Do not succumb to peer group pressure
- Avoid body fondling, kissing, pecking and necking when dating
- Always flee from all appearances of evil
- Do not engage in dating until you are physically, emotionally, spiritually, socially, mentally matured and ready
- Always exercise self control over your emotions
- Avoid wrong association or bad company for “ evil communication corrupts good manner”
- Avoid staying alone with your intended spouse late to the night
- Avoid sleeping with your intended spouse in the same room before marriage
- Always subject your flesh under the spirit of God by dwelling on the word of god everyday
- Ensure that true love is the foundation for your relationship and love guides, protects, cares and hates sin
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